Love is beautiful I must say; nothing beats the feeling of
meeting someone new and falling heads over heels in love with the
person.
Many people describe the feeling as exceptional while some record
having butterflies in their stomach when they are newly in love. Many
people feel this way for the rest of their lives while some hate to
remember having to fall in love in the first place.
So when things are going on well, the men would promise heaven and
earth and would make you fly on cloud nine. No one is trying to label
the men as being evil but then, there are certain promises they make
that you should know they would never keep.
It could be reassuring hearing the men say all these promises at the
start of the relationship but that is as far as it goes. They are merely
words they say to make the women feel good about themselves but these
words do not go very far in the relationship as you are bound to see
their flaws. Some break the promises they make as soon as the words
leave their lips.
It would be good for you to known the promises men make and break so
that your expectations are not cut short. Find below some of these
promises of love:
1. I will provide all your needs
Men often say this to women to make them feel comfortable about
settling down with her. Women ordinarily would not walk into poverty
with their eyes opened and would prefer to date men who can provide them
financial security.
As a woman, if you go into a marriage with the aim of having all your
needs met, it is possible you lose the passion for that marriage as
soon as the man disappoints you. Things could change for the man and he
may not be as financially buoyant as he used to be. If you dwell on the
promises of a man in this regard, you will be disappointed. It is only
God that is all sufficient.
2. I will always be with you
Many men say this even though we know it is not possible. A man
cannot be with you always because he has a life too. He would be busy at
one point or the other trying to fix things in his life or trying to
provide for the family.
It would be selfish to hold the men to their words on this. The most
important thing is to understand each other and try as much as possible
to be faithful to your partner even when you are apart.
3. I will never hurt you
Please, for the love of God do not take this promise very serious. It
is quite impossible for you not to be hurt in a relationship or
marriage. The most important thing to note here is to be willing to
forgive your partner and move on.
He is not perfect after all and you it would be near impossible for
him not to hurt you with his words or actions at one point of the other.
Promises like this will only make you hurth the more when you remember
them.
4. I will never cheat on you
Oh please! Not every man has the tenacity to withstand the temptation
out there. Most men end up cheat*ng on their partners as a result of
boredom or just for the fun of it. Men would always be men; while they
are trying so hard to keep their promises to you, there are some ladies
who get excited running after other women’s men.
It would be nice for you to zero your mind when it comes to this
promise, do the best you can and lay down some rules that would protect
you in that union in case that happens. Remember men remain $exually
active for as long as possible when women are worn out and retired from
$exual activities.
5. I will do everything for you
When a man makes a promise like this, he means he would try doing
what he could when it comes to your affairs. Do not ever think that a
man would do everything for you; you should be able to do certain things
for yourself too since you are not handicapped.
Knowing this at the back of your mind would help you get through life
as you would not be disappointed when he breaks this promise.
